Santa is a parents best friend in December! Where the f*ck is he the rest of the year?

Hiyyah Everyone!

I saw this on facebook and I thought it was funny and that I would share it with you all.

I found this really funny because although milly is only 11 months old and has not got a clue who santa is I’ve still threatened to phone him.

I don’t think it matters how young they are as a parent in December you always use Santa’s name to try get them to behave. πŸ˜‚

I have used santa quite a lot this week actually because Milly has been dreadful I don’t know what is going on with her but she has been tantruming, not wanting food, crying for everyone and clinging to me.

I never thought I would say that but this past week she has become a proper mummy’s girl which is nice but it’s also a bit much.

She used to cry when I walked into the room she was in or if I went anywhere near her, now she crys if I’m 2 steps away from her.

I don’t know if I didn’t prefer it more when she didn’t like me… no it’s taken a ling time for us to get this bond but it just gets a bit much especially now she can crawl!

Because what she does is she crawls over to my leg and either pulls on my clothes or legs and screams until I pick her up.

Has anyone else been through this with your 11 month old? 

I don’t like to tell her off because it has taken so long to get the bond we have I don’t want to brake it but when she crys to go to family members that’s different.

Yesterday my partner took his driving test so I stayed with my grandma and usually Milly loves seeing her Nana and having cuddles with her nana but yesterday if I left the room or even if I just passed her to my grandma she would cry and that upset my grandma as it would anybody.

It used to make me feel like it’s not even worth living but she isn’t as bad with everyone as she used to be for me.

Is this normal for an  11 month old?

She maybe tiny but my god she has some good lungs on her.

Is there anything we can do to get her to be more independent again or will it just come in time? 

Also my partner passed his driving test yesterday so that means I don’t have to go everywhere with him because I can drive so because he was a learner I had to go everywhere.

This has also triggerd my anxiety a bit though and I’m not sure why. 

It may be because I will be alone with milly a lot more and I am not sure I am ready for that yet.

Anyway back to santa who has threatened to call Santa on there kids this week? 

I’m sure I will post before Christmas but If not I hope you all have a fabulous Christmas and an amazing new year! Because you all deserve it.

Thanks for reading 

Good night 

Xx 

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